Energy Clearing Remedy & Self-Care Spa Practice for Feeling Defeated. This package for Feeling Defeated is perfect for when you hit that same thing AGAIN in your life, and you are ready for a shift. First, we'll energetically clear the subconscious pattern: THIS IS JUST THE WAY LIFE IS. YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT. Then, we'll start a new self-care practice awakening your Essential YES.